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Provide emotional support
and be a good listener
In the long run, the person's chances of recovery
are improved greatly when he or she is encouraged to share the pain
and memories associated with the traumatic experience. They may
need to talk about the traumatic event over and over again, and
one of the best things family members and friends can do is to be
patient, sympathetic listeners.
Being able to share these feelings with others
helps the person feel less alone. Friends and family members can
provide important emotional support and can also try to help the
person let go of any unrealistic guilt they may feel about what
they have been through. One of the most important things you can
do is to give the message: "You are not to blameand you are
not alone." It is also important to have realistic expectations
while the person is recovering and not to expect too much or too
little from the person.
Encourage your loved one to join a PTSD support
group. Participating in a group with others who have experienced
extreme trauma can help people to understand that they are not alone
and to learn how to cope with their symptoms and work towards their
own recovery.
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